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BDSM is a popular activity and there are people around the world who enjoy the play associated with it. When you have questions about BDSM or are looking for inspiration for your next BDSM scene, where do you turn? What about if you are looking for friends who also enjoy BDSM? The internet has a number of popular BDSM communities out there that help to connect those who are interested in kink and domination.

Take a moment to take a look at these five popular BDSM communities and decide which you want to join.

BDSMdatingonly.com

BDSM Dating Only

BDSM Dating Only is a dating website specifically for those that like to have some kink in their life. It is one of the best and largest BDSM dating website in the world. Using the website you can find both singles and couples that are looking to have some BDSM-related fun. Instead of a traditional dating website, BDSM Dating Only takes on the form of displaying personals to introduce their own twist and give users a little more flexibility.

At the same time that the website is a dating site, it also functions as a BDSM community. You can talk with other users through a variety of different methods and even view live and recorded video.

Multiple times BDSM Dating Only has been rated the best fetish website on the internet, giving you a good reason to join the site.

FetLife.com

Fetlife

FetLife is the traditional BDSM community of the internet. It has many features available for free such as groups, forums, and picture sharing. Each user also gets a profile that they are free to setup however they wish. That includes making your profile completely anonymous if you want. Part of the idea of the website is that it is a place for you to express your BDSM side in a way that you feel comfortable with.

By being one of the original BDSM websites around they bring with them years of improvement and a large userbase. You can find smaller communities on the website for just about every area of the world or any kinks that you can think of.

Premium Fetlife accounts give you access to the full website, including member videos and other restricted sections. Because of the popularity of the site and the size of the community, a good number of members opt to become premium users but you can use the vast majority of the site without being one.

Reddit.com/r/BDSMcommunity

Reddit BDSM

The tag line of r/BDSMcommunity is "get your kink on" and that is sure what users do in this section of Reddit. Users discuss everything from questions to requests for inspiration. Any Reddit user or non-user can view the community and reap the rewards from what is already posted there. You can also create an account and join the discussion.

This sub-Reddit is more for looking for advice, asking questions, and getting help than finding others to connect with. That does naturally happen though as people get in conversations in the comments and end up becoming friends.

TheCage.co

The Cage

The Cage is a mix of forum and old school social media websites all in one. When you visit the website you are met with a collection of different categories on the side such as blogs, the forum, audio clips, and personals. Many people enjoy The Cage because it is such a flexible platform and gives you a place to do more than one thing. You don't have to turn to different websites to find dating, make friends, ask questions, or read blogs, The Cage has it all in one place.

You will find that The Cage is a free community that is inclusive of everyone. The signup page has a variety of different gender orientations that you can choose from and people around the site are friendly.

CollarSpace.com

CollarSpace

Collar Space may look like a very old website when you first navigate to it. The layout and design features are not the most up-to-date. Do not let that turn you away from the site. Despite the old design of the site, it has a very large userbase and a lot of features. The most popular of features being the member search that lets you find people from anywhere in the world that match your interests. With such a big community there are almost always matches online.

You will also find that there is a cinema full of BDSM related videos for you to view and a live viewing section. Both of these feature a wide variety of content for your viewing pleasure or you can contribute your own content.

Despite the old fashion nature of the website, it still has a mobile-ready interface to help ensure you can access the community no matter when or where you are.

The internet has been amazing for those that want to enjoy the world of BDSM. It has enabled people to become closer than ever and connected people who never would have met otherwise. It also gives you a place to turn for coaching, advice, and anything else you may need. Take a look at the different communities listed above and see if one or more of them is right for you. You never know what you might find when you sign up.

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